I decided that since Raven has so many friends she should have a birthday party.
They had their second date at Raven's "house". During the date Spencer suddenly spun and aged to elder!
Note: I used the cas cheat to make Spencer an adult again after he moved in. They are currently on the last step of the Soulmate aspiration. I had thought of having a kid to work on one of the family aspirations but changed my mind after looking at them.
Age- 13 days 'till elder
Satisfaction points- 24,265
Whims completed- 319